...is truly inevitable. I've come to this conclusion as I've experienced firsthand how to recognize change as a daily (and often times) unwanted occurrence in our daily lives. This is the first step in becoming more comfortable with the concept of change management, which I have found to be more and more prevalent in my work currently. Being able to deal with change is another story. I've done so out of pure necessity in the past (albeit not to the best of my ability) and I am still striving to do better. I'll be the first to admit that I don't like change. Overlooking the present hardship or struggle the change itself may present and seeing the bigger picture is even harder. The popular idea of living every day as if it was your last really goes against the other common notion of "...imagining what the future holds". How then is it possible to live in conjunction with change? Aiiee...
With this being said, things already seem different and you've only been gone less than a day. I know you have your life to live and your own agenda to adhere to. What's next? Where do we go from now? Similar thoughts have been running through my head sporadically throughout the day. This is the kind of change that I would deem as unwanted, but it has to happen. Obstacles have now been put into play but if we're strong enough we would be able to overcome these, right? I miss you dearly =/
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Hi bboy,
ReplyDeleteUnlike you, I've been thinking about this for awhile haha. I understand the hardships and the big changes that are out of our hands.
I figure that whatever happens, happens. I love you and that won't change. It's really a decision that the two of us will have to make sooner or later and the more you figure out what you want, the easier it can be.
I feel as though you've been unable to commit to anything because of this impending situation. That is fine, I totally understand. It can hurt.
But I made the decision to live it out and be as happy as I can. Once it's gone it's gone. Enjoy it while it lasts is the most cliche I can get.
I miss you a lot.